An important and may be the most important realisation in a long time. Relationship. A word I've been having in mind and been hearing a lot these days. Going through a 'difficult' phase in relationship right now. And I started to think why I base my existence and happiness and meaning and purpose on relationship with someone. Why not am I enough for myself to be happy and to be meaningful and to be purposeful? I'm enough. A being. A life. I don't have to be in relationship to eat. To sleep. To live. To have pleasures in life. I mean I don't have to base everything on person(s). I've to build my life myself and there are enough people concerned about me. My parents. My siblings. My friends. And I need to be concerned about myself. Meet new people. Ya. Keep meeting. For various reasons. Ya. But expecting to be in having this one magical person like a genie to keep me happy and thinking I'll keep her or him happy is a bubble I've been in. Too much crap.
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